Forgive and forget

"Forgive and forget. That's what they say. It's good advice, but it's not
very practical. When someone hurts us, we want to hurt them back. When someone
wrongs us, we want to be right. Without forgiveness, old scores are never settled; old wounds never heal. And the most we can hope for, is that one day we'll be lucky enough to forget."

Meredith Grey (Greys Anatomy)

It's the other way round for me.

I can forgive, but i can't forget.

I mean if it is so hurtful for once, i find it difficult to forget, although you may have already forgiven the person.

It's just like a wound, healed and recovered.

But the scar remains.